So as you can tell from the title,I'm going to be sharing with you guys what I've learnt from the pass few weeks of my holidays.Also,I hope that you have been enjoying your holidays and having much fun. I'm not sure about myself but I've been really busy here and there and hope that I can make better use of my time from the following days onwards.I have recently been to Jakarta(again) and I will maybe do a post on it?
Everyone has a different story.
This post will be all about that sentence.So what do I mean by that?
We can't control the things we are meant to be with and have and we all lead a different lifestyle and all of us have different family backgrounds.And sometimes,because of that,we can't help but to always compare ourselves with people or friends with better statuses than ourselves.It's natural and something everyone tend to do.But we can always choose how we want to compare ourselves,how we see ourselves.It's not only us but others who see and judge us compare us.
If we compare ourselves with people better than us,we will tend to feel insecure about ourselves and just want to be like that person.We get jealous and envious,about how that person has what we do not.So we want to become like that person.
On the other hand,if we compare ourselves with people who are not as good as us,we judge them and look down on them.We find it hard to talk or interact with them just because we think they don't fit in.We dislike them and treat them badly.
Isn't it ironic?What a confusing and mean world we live in?This is what causes so many people to die,in a way called bullying or insecure.It's funny how the human mind can cause so many ripples just by thoughts and emotions.I really hope that someday,people will just wake up and see the true meaning of life.
If we encounter people better than us,don't feel bad because you're special.You're unique.It doesn't matter how people are,what matters is yourself.Remember that nobody is perfect.And there are people who are better than the ones that are better than you and this is a continuation to infinity because it will never ends.Let's say you think this person is better than you and you finally get better than him/her,there will still be people ahead of you and it never ends.What you need to do is to be satisfied with yourself and be thankful.I believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way and no one is the most beautiful.Everyone is from the same species and we're all the same.
And if we encounter people who are not as good as us,never look down on them just like how people ahead of you don't look don't look down on you.Take this chance and think of how fortunate you are and appreciate what you have.They're not all bad trust me.They are the ones whom I myself respect the most.If you think of it,these people are more happier than you are even though they are not as privileged as you.They are still able to laugh and play happily every single day while you,who is so privileged and is still wanting more.Then what about them?Don't they want to be privileged too?But nontheless,the never complain and instead treasure what they have.We all should learn more from them.
Even the greater ones have flaws.No one is perfect so why try to be one?You're born as you are.Changing what you were meant to be destroys the beauty and originality in you.Stop trying to be perfect and stop trying to envy others because it won't make you any better.Stand out from the rest because you can.Learn from those who are still happy regardless of who they are.
I hope this has been a helpful blog for you guys really hope to update soon if I can(hopefully)!
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee<3
xoxo,
Sher:-)
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