Crying

Maybe crying once in a while is part of growing up.Sometimes you just need to let go of what's bothering you.It's perfectly fine and alright for anyone and everyone to cry.And maybe,sometimes you just need to confide in someone.Someone you trust and can talk to.Or maybe sometimes you just need to have some fun.You have been in the same old boring routine and you need to make a change to it.You improve yourselves to achieve a better and newer you,every day,every week,every month,every year.It's like urbanisation.

Or at least that's my definition of life.

There are just too many thoughts going through my mind.In fact everyday,I sit and observe others quietly and wonder to myself.I've watched so many people cry.Young ones.Old ones.Different problems.Same action.

The young ones often tend to cry because their needs aren't fulfilled.Old ones,too,cry for the same reason.But the difference is that the young ones are innocent and they cry for things that we may find unnecessary.Old ones cry for many other more complicated problems that they face in life.

But since crying is a process of growing up,we all shan't be afraid to cry.Crying makes us grow as people.If the young ones don't cry,how are they going to grow up?And how do they grow up by doing so?It is like the same thing for asking:How am I going to finish this big project?The answer is simple,once you have reached your maximum,you will always return to your minimum and you always find a way.It's the same thing for crying.When your emotions have reached its peak and you can no longer take it,you cry.After you cry,you lay on the floor thinking through the reasons of why you are crying.You find it stupid so you tell yourself you never cry for such things again.You learn from your mistakes and therefore you grow.Every time you cry about something,you learn not to cry for it.You gain something by crying,although you lost much tears.

So don't be afraid to cry.Everyone cries.I cry.Alot.I often cry in my room and I feel so alone and cold.But after crying,damn,my senses just wakes up and I learn many things.At first,I thought crying makes you a depressing kid and you feel like a fish out of water because you think normal people don't cry.They do.They just don't tell others.But crying relieves stress anyway so why not?

The next time your friends ask you to go for shopping,why don't you ask them to go for crying?